I’m actually a fan of porn and I recommend it, but for a different reason. I like porn because you can learn great sex techniques and fantasy from it; just don’t abuse it, and don’t use it as a substitute for real socialization. I do advise getting unplugged and getting out into the field as much as humanly possible when you’re just getting started. I also think it’s important to get that first lay out of the way, even if it’s with a fat chick!! Just be yourself has got to be the worst advice I’ve ever heard. I far prefer Style’s “Just be your best self.”

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Nice insights. I agree with your “quit porn” tip – I’m not a big fan of porn. I think it distracts you from real life. And real life is so much better. Go meet a hottie and date, if that’s what you want. Better than staring at her on a screen. I also agree that you shouldn’t wait for marriage. Get out there and have sex, get good at it, discover what you like, and meet a woman who is good in bed. There is way more to a comitted relationship than sex. But good sex is a necessary ingredient.

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This is excellent advice. If only more friends and family would stop just saying “there’s someone out there for you.” Maybe so, but what kind of person might that be and where, exactly, are they located? I think people say stuff like that because they don’t really want to say out loud what they know to be true. And, actually helping a full grown friend is a lot of work, especially if the virgin is, well… resistant. Hopefully, places like yours make it easier.

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I don’t think that MasterSargent (like many guys in the seduction community) are advocating treating women like shit and being a jerk. What he likely intended were that men STOP being supplicating needy men who let women walk all over them. When a guy puts a woman up on a pedestal, this is where the stereotypical “nice guy” behavior comes from that so many women find unattractive in a male. And I think this type of behavior can be discarded without having to revert to being an asshole.

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Agreed. Good sex ought to be enough motivation for anyone to quit the porn habit. Certainly nothing better than the real thing:) I think most people genuinely believe that they are helping with that kind of advice, but they likely don’t understand the underlying complexities the person’s problems. “Be yourself” only really works if you are already good at meeting women. Agreed. Leave the porn alone, dweebs. All porn does is create an unrealistic ideal in your sex-deprived, horny minds. Male virgins, when in doubt, just print this post out.

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